Better Sex by Monday

I knew that title would get ya! Who doesn't want better sex? First disclaimer...God intended sex to be within the confines of marriage. The best sex you'll ever have is with your spouse, because that's the relationship blessed by God. Ok, now that we've got that straight... let's talk. So many things keep us from enjoying a good, healthy sexual relationship...stress, finances, exhaustion, the kids among others. Assuming those other things aren't physical or emotional damage that is truly inhibiting us, then let's call ourselves 'normal' (for the sake of this discussion)...and before anyone gets upset with me, I'm not saying that someone with physical or emotional problems isn't normal...I'm just not sure how to get my point across without using common language, so if you would, please show me some grace as we approach this subject. Deep breath...ok, so I'm not sure where we (my husband and I) learned these things - I beli...